Becoming an adult is something that we cannot run away nor hide from. It will come no matter how much we try to stall. Year after year or day after day, we lose our self and become a new person. Perhaps, I am just too carried-away with the ongoing changes that I had to implement in my life, especially after my 30th birthday. There’s no denying, I am not a child anymore.
Recently, I have been doing several projects that I feel important. All of them are meant to impact change in my life. Since some experts attest that it will take 21 days to form a habit. I decided to tweak small changes in my life and create a daily routine. Hopefully, these changes can somehow help me become healthier, manage my time better, and develop a more optimistic mindset.
I found Pinterest as my favorite go-to place after google. It appears I am a visual person and I prefer when information is presented in a concise form such as posters and infographics. Thus, most of the information below are largely based from Pinterest posts.
Here’s a list of my ongoing 21-day projects.
1. Gratitude posts
I have been watching several self-development videos and Christian ministry videos for the past few years. Meeting my fiance helped me understand Faith deeper, in contrast to religion. Slowly, I began to become more thankful and noticed areas of my life where I have been fortunate. I actively or consciously avoid having a ‘victim-mentality’ and try to understand other people more emphatically. On top of these, I have also become more curious about the similarities among different beliefs, particularly about expressing gratitude. I noticed that being thankful for simple things automatically gives a positive vibe. I decided to develop a grateful attitude, thus I started my gratitude posts in IG.
2. Affirmations and Meditation
Affirmation is just about anything we tell ourselves during personal dialogue. I wanted to do away with negative thinking, blame, fear, and guilt -especially with respect to things that are beyond my control. I know that I cannot be an enemy of myself. I have done that and it never did me any good. So, I want to consciously deprive myself of such negativity by feeding my mind with positive affirmations.
3. Exercise
We all know about the benefits of exercise but most of us take it for granted. I did, despite commonsense. I was able to establish an exercise routine and succeeded in becoming leaner. However, breaking this habit turned out to be so much easier than building it. So, I have to restart my exercise habit for the umpteen time. After the first week of morning exercises, I added evening exercises. This week, I will be adding HIIT exercises. After a month, I will reduce the time I spend on workouts through continuous training instead of exer-resting.
4. Learning
I have decided to learn a thing or two everyday. I will study again and improve my skill set. I really want to take an MBA and learn more about psychology. I feel wasted when I cannot see myself improving or learning a thing or two for a long time. I am yet to establish this routine because my mind is still lost in the universe of choices. Basically, I am learning excel and tesol weekly. Then I plan to increase my online-work-related skills slowly. The important thing is to have a study routine that I can keep. I am currently challenging myself to complete the 21-days clickfunnel course in just 7 days.
5. Intermittent Fasting
I have been doing IF for a year now. However, I was not as strict as I was before. In a sense, I am just restricting my diet at night but I am not actually reaping the benefits of IF because I have more cheat days than essential. Therefore, I am planning to strictly follow the 6:18 IF. I am slowly establishing a meal routine first because I do not want to do a crash IF.
6. Journal Writing
In my journey to establishing this blog, I found out that not anyone can be a blogger. It takes much more time and dedication than normally perceive. It is not just writing whatever one wants, but that is a good start. Some people are gifted. They can easily express their ideas eloquently with words. In my case, it takes more effort. Maybe my world is a tad smaller or my vocabulary is not enough. In any case, I have decided to write posts everyday about my thoughts and my reflections. Journal writing gives me a space to blurt my mind out.
7. Photography
I want to develop my photography skills because I need it as a blogger and because it is one way to earn passive income. I do not need to be renown. I just want to be able to put something in the market that people can buy. I may not have enough capital for a full-blown online shop or online business, but I have a good smartphone. Personally, it will not hurt if I can capture some of our best memories better. Professionally, I could develop the blog better if I know and I have good images. The practice of photography also widens imagination and develop my creativity. To start with, I signed up with Behance, National Geographic, and Foap. For now, I have been taking 1 photo per day and posting it in Foap. I submit photos on Foap missions, not to win but to keep me motivated. While it may be common for many people to take photos of just about anything, I found it exhausting and useless. Therefore, I wish to develop an eye for meaningful photography.
8. Decluttering
I am in Day 5 of my decluttering mission. I have thrown away a good amount of paper and expired products in my files and my kitchen. Physical clutter is not difficult to deal with. I am having problems with emotional clutter and digital clutter more. I started writing a journal because of the excessive mental clutter that kept me stuck. Meditation also helps a lot.
9. Gardening
I love gardening. Today also marks the 5th day of restarting my vegetable garden. I only have one leafy vegetable and one kind of flower though. I have a balcony garden, so I cannot have as much plants as I want. I have given up on herb gardening, but I’ll give it another try. Maybe I can grow them better from seeds.
10. Budgeting
I have had budgets before. The difference is now I have savings goals. I stopped trading for the meantime because I started saving for an emergency fund. It’s been two months now and I am proud that 30% of my weekly salary automatically goes to my savings account. I have also started paying more attention to the things I buy and became very conscious with how we spend our electricity. We are cooking smaller portions to avoid waste. We were cooking rice on stove instead of the electric cooker for the past 23 days.